I certainly can’t say I know everything about the Mother of my children, Kristin Golestan, the woman I was so head over heels in love with that I even had an engagement video made.
Eight years ago I never dreamed I would be here, writing about my experiences and evidence of her as a mother,
Kristin Golestan has said repeatedly that she’s suicidal and hates living. A mother who has hidden beer bottles and a corkscrew wine bottle opener among our children’s stuffed animals, so I wouldn’t see them and call out Kristin on her alcohol and drug dependency problem (see here). A mother who falsely labeled our oldest son, Sky, as Autistic because she said she had been advised by her legal counsel that Family Courts tend to give sole custody to mothers with children with disabilities.
Please listen to this recording where Kristin confirms to me that Sky does not have Autism, but she’s labeling him Autistic to make the Guardian Ad Litem Maria Averill happy:
As a result of this, Sky is receiving 60 hours a month in ABA therapy for a condition he does not have. I continue to wonder, what kind of a mother would knowingly harm her own child to advance her agenda?
This same mother with documented incidents of child negligence (see here), would give our youngest son, Ford, her prescription bottles full of Controlled Substances to keep him entertained instead of engaging with him or giving him one of his toys. This same mother who has traded Schedule II controlled substance without prescription for money, payment towards cable bills during her single days, or in exchange for exam answers of nursing school.
You can imagine my shock and horror at discovering these sights below:
The Charleston Family Court and the Guardian ad Litem (GAL) who are tasked with doing what’s in the best interest of the children, refused to consider any of my evidence.
There’s so much about my experiences with Kristin as a mother that I want to share. This is only the beginning of my story with her. I wish her well and a blessed, healthy life in every way. I just need to tell my story about what life was like for me and my children, living with her during those years.
“I want to build a community of parents who have gone unheard, despite tons of verifiable evidence to support their stand as a loving, able parent who simply wants to love their children, to be in their lives, supporting, encouraging, guiding them, as all good parents do.”Amir Golestan / July 2020
The Series: Life with Kristin Golestan
As promised, I’m continuing this, telling my story about my experiences and evidence concerning the mother of my children who has sole custody for reasons I simply cannot understand.
A five (5) part series that takes a close look at what my marriage to Kristin Golestan was like. I’m sharing my experiences and evidence, all of which has already been shared with the Charleston Family Court, in hopes that it will show just how much Sky and Ford need to be with a stable parent, their loving Father, instead of a mother who is not up to the job of solo parenting. Please have a look at these follow up posts that dive deeper:
What about you? Have you been impacted by a Family Court circumstance like mine?
Please scroll down to the comments below and share your point of view on this tragic situation. And again, thanks so much for your enthusiastic support! I don’t know how I could have made through all this without the love and support of my family and friends. This is the first step in our creating community around Helping Every Loving Parent (HELP) to spend time with their children. Every story is important.
Footnote: I’m telling my story, sharing this intimate evidence, to shine the light of truth on how the Charleston Family Court has allowed my children to be harmed, deprived of a loving father, and used as ransom. There is no evidence of any unloving, ungenerous, irresponsible behavior on my part – ever. I want to rescue my boys and to be the loving, stable father they need in their lives. Is this asking too much?